I have not played an OTB tournament in years (I do miss it). Fatherhood has kept me busy. I will gladly accept any challenge. I play to improve my game; win, lose or draw.
I will only use an engine after a game is over to find out where I need improvement. I suggest you do the same.
I have taken lessons from a Brazilian IM for the past 3 years and I owe him thanks for improving my game as well as introducing me to Queen Alice.
I travel around the world for work. Maybe we can play in person one day!